You can’t fail at being you!

You can’t fail at being you!

You can’t fail at being you!

The way you think, feel and act is a distraction from doing what you would that would actually makes you happy, make you rich, makes you aligned, makes you successful, makes you free, makes you be in every state you want to be.

The reason you’re doing it all is the main reason for most people, FREEDOM!

FREEDOM in time, FREEDOM in money, FREEDOM in doing what you want to be doing, when you want to do it and doing it completely on your terms.

Living the life you want on your terms!

On your terms, on your terms, on your terms!

Got it?

You want every day to be amazing, to be great. You want the day to be filled with passion and flow.

At the end of the day you want to have that feeling that is was a good day, a great day!

A day as it was meant to be.

A day when you are rocking!

Do you feel like that at the end of your day?

Do you feel that at all?

When was the last time when you went to bed and you know that you give everything you had in you to make it a great day?

A day when you create business and live your life on your terms  that you had in mind?

Or do you only remember the days that are filled up with a whole bunch of stuff that you don’t want to do? Stuff that you are not supposed to be doing.

Those days happen sometimes, but before you know it, it’s gonna be one of those days and it’s become who you are.

You’re not living your life with passion and on your terms

You’re not being successful

You’re not feeling the freedom

You’re not what you stand for

If you don’t change that now it will become who and what you are and what you’re known for.

How you fill your life is what you are, what you life for. That’s your reality now.

The things you do, where and with who you spent your time with, the tasks you have to stop but are still doing it creates who you are today!

The things you want to change but you don’t creates who you are today!

You’re not changing your life, your destiny, your business, your success, your money.

You’re on the wrong path and you know it. You’re not doing what is supposed to be your true purpose.

It’s really ok if you find out now that you are on the wrong path.  It happens to everybody from time to time.

Until you change that path.

Like I said, it’s ok. But it’s not ok if you don’t change it.

You have to do something about it. Right now!

Fear is one of the most reasons why people don’t change.

Your life as you live it is familiar and people are always afraid of change.

You have to stop letting fear guide you. Deep down inside of you, you know that you’re not living the right life for you now.

Still if you want to change it ask yourself what would go wrong if you did. Would it be devastating for you life if start by changing one thing?

What are you afraid of?


Are you gonna fail?

Are you not going to do it right?

Are you going to lose friends?

Are you going to change it for the good?


Stop thinking that it wouldn’t work!

Start thinking what if it does work?

All you have to be doing in change is being YOU!

You can’t fail at being you.

And if you fail because you’ve made a mistake, so what! It doesn’t matter, cause you get yourself up and go because You are who you are and that’s good enough.

You have to believe in yourself

You have to believe it’s going to be alright

What you feel you have to do is always the real and the good thing. Trust in that!

And you have to start right now!

Today, not tomorrow…. TODAY!

Do the thing that you are supposed to be doing!

Never think that the life you want is not possible for you, because it always is. You just have to grab it!

It’s there and you just have to run to it!

Do the things you have to do to get there and you will.

So get over yourself and get on with it.

Face fear and deal with it. Most of the times it’s not that bad that you thought it would be.

You can never fail, because you are just being you. You are following your heart and your soul and that’s always the good step to take.

Stay close to yourself and follow your dream. It’s there for you. Don’t think that it’s not, it is…

Do you want to be going on like you did and reach for the small thing or do want to think big?

Go for your own happyness and life living on your terms, making the business you want and earning the money you deserve.

So stop acting from fear and take the first steps to being you and living the life that’s waiting for you!




You are who you are and that’s good enough.

You are who you are and that’s good enough.

You are who you are and that’s good enough.


You often have those moments when you think it’s all up to you.

That you did it yourself.

That you have ensured that it does not work.

That only things are going against you.


You are annoyed

You’re cranky

You are negative

You see no possibilities

You are rebellious

You are mad

You are sad

You get that feeling that you are not good enough and that you have to change.


That you have to work harder

That you have to be more positive

That you have to improve yourself

That you have to live healthier

If something does not work, we all too quickly blame ourselves for not being good enough.


Cut it down!


It is all difficult enough.

We all have to keep those balls high

And oh dear, if one falls… what then?


Then that feeling comes over again.


You know … we are all human and we all have a hard time.

But don’t make it heavier than it is now.

Not everything is up to you and you don’t have to change everything.

Do not make everything personal and do not relate everything to yourself.


Do you know how much time you wasted on this? Sin!


Take your time and look at yourself.

Do you know who you are?


You are good enough as you are

You are good enough !!!


Remember you are who you are and that’s good!


It may take you time to see that you are good enough, it doesn’t matter. But get in your strength.

Deep in your power, you have the power to turn those negative thoughts around.


You determine what your emotions are, know what you put your energy into and what reactions you get right.

Whether it is about selling your online product or something from your personal life, it does not matter.

It is up to you, YES you have the choice !! How you accept it and deal with it.


You choose to be the person you are. The results will come naturally as long as you remain yourself.

I’ll shake you awake!


Embrace your strength and head straight for your goal.

Do not doubt whether you will succeed, but know that it will succeed. Feel it will work.

Don’t you feel it? Then adjust your goal or your strategy.


Do not be fooled by what is happening now.

You don’t sell anything, you get a negative reaction, you feel that nobody listens to you and you see that others do achieve the success that you want too.

I am not good enough and I am not worthy are death eaters.

We all have those moments every now and then. That’s life!


Do you know:

We always have enough work to do

You always keep looking for ways to improve yourself

You want to get even stronger


You keep encountering this in life. You always learn until your death.

You will always wonder afterwards if you did it right.

And yes, sometimes you will say not. So what!


Often you say afterwards that you would do things differently now, but hey don’t let this stop you.

After all, you learn from every situation, so accept that.

Do not say after each learning moment that you were not good enough, because you were.


Okay, I wasn’t in great shape

Okay, I didn’t know the answers to everything

Okay, I wasn’t quite in my strength

Okay, I was ashamed

Okay, it could be better

Or whatever


Don’t forget: You did it anyway!

And you are an experience richer again!


You can now do two things:


  1. Just talk yourself into the pit that it was not perfect enough and that you were not good enough. You stay with that mindset and talk yourself into the pit even more, you become even more insecure, unmotivated and you no longer see the fun in it.
  2. Realizing who you are is good enough. If you believe that you are good enough, you are who you are and that who you are right now is enough. You have no fear of continuing, you are not going to stop, you know you shouldn’t wait until everything is perfect and you have to be perfect. You continue to be disciplined and keep your passion. You don’t worry!


You will stop thinking:

-I didn’t do it right

-I could have better this … instead of that

-I need to get better at….

It’s not so!


Of course I have had that feeling in the past. I felt out of place and felt completely different from the rest.

Now I see that it is beautiful if you are unique. I like to see how each has something unique that the other does not have. That makes people beautiful!

The pitfall is that many people tend to change themselves and want to be like others. So sinful and pointless.

I keep creating content, I keep working hard and I know it will eventually come to me. I stay with myself and it doesn’t have to be perfect. I don’t have to be perfect!

Repeat after me:

I don’t have to be perfect! I’m good enough!

You keep doing your work, you keep improving yourself and that is part of it.

You will gain more insight and make adjustments.

But for this moment you are just good enough. Really!

You will only become stronger if you make your own uniqueness powerful.


And make a mistake, accept it, feel that emotion, learn from it and keep going. Step over it!


I always say:


It is what it is. Nothing more and nothing less!


And sometimes you have to go through a lesson several times to learn well. So what! You learn from it. You grow. It automatically makes you stronger. It makes you more active. And you always go a step further.

Believe it’s always in your favor if things don’t always go the way you planned.

And you automatically go to the next level in which you become an even better version of yourself.

Every day new opportunities and chances pass by which we grow. Take this opportunity, don’t be afraid to fail. You can never fail at being you!

You are who you are and you can do it!


Don’t forget to see that life is beautiful.

Your current situation will also pass.

And yes, you are good enough as you are!

Always within the lines

Always within the lines

Always within the lines.

As long as I can remember I have always been good. 

Listening well and do what was asked of me.

Even though I grumbled sometimes, I did it eventually. 

At school I was the one in the class that was always bullied.

I didn’t even dare say anything. Not in class. Not to the teacher. Not to the other children. To no one.

If I said anything then I would be bullied or laughed at.

I was very shy and, as you understand, had few friends.

It took me decades before I really stood up for myself.

Sometimes it’s still difficult to say everything I would like to say to people I have in front of me. I just think… and think.

This feeling still works against me every day. Especially in my business.

When I try to sell a program or course I’m afraid people won’t pay me money for that. That feeling gets less as I get more and more experience wih selling.

Also because I have come to realize that I can also earn money. And also a lot if I want to.

This took some time and hard work.

Working on myself, loving myself, think I can make money too.

And that it is ok.

Damn, it’s ok!

Why should I make less money then I want to?

Because I’ve always accepted it! I always said: I don’t have much money. I don’t earn much money. I wish I had more money, but…

You see the pattern here?

I blogged as a budgetcoach and I was always writing about savings and having less money.

No wonder I wasn’t making more money.

I was always in the short zone.

Until I realised that and I made a switch.

I read a lot about money coaches, about making money and, what I missed mostly, about Money Mindset.

And that’s were the switch came.

I was not allowing myself to earn more money. It’s a logical story.

If I was only thinking about less money, I would never ever have more of it!

Within the lines…

It also goes back before I was making my own believes. We all get much of our believes from our parents. How they think about money and act with money is how I did it either. I was living the same live as they were living it. 

I don’t know how your experience is with your parents, but when I say something that is another opinion then they have then I will hear it. Often when I look at myself I see my parents. And the good things are ok, but if I see things were I think of differently it is a battle.

Will I always be within these lines?

Most of the time when I see them I am, just because they don’t get what I think. I’ve learned a lot the last years about entrepreneurs, business, money mindset and go on. They have no idea what I’m talking about. And that’s ok. 

But when I’m in my own zone, I’m not within the lines anymore.

I like drawing outside the lines and you know? It’s beautiful outside the lines.

I’m open for more to see.

You can not always be within the lines.

I want to tell you that you should not always be within the lines.

Are you? Within the lines right now?

Realise when you are and why.

Sometimes you just can’t do the things you want in your way and on your terms. You are not alone on this world. But it is good to realise when you are and when you aren’t.

You have to think about it, because you don’t want to life like others want you to.

At least they don’t!

And do you want them to live like you want them to? No, you don’t even think about that.

But you do think about what others think you should do. You know what? They don’t even know it that they do that. They don’t know that they put their believes, opinions and norms to you. They just think that their truth is the only truth. 

Stop that right now and live your life on your terms!